On Loving...

Loving is always a learning process.
With love, we learn how to care & sacrifice.
We learn to be unselfish and gave more than what we can.
And when everything doesn't end well, we learn how it feels to fall and get hurt.
But learning doesn't have to end there!
After the fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on,this is wat we learn, that life doesn't end wer heartaches begin!
Its true that there is life in love!
But there can still be life even after losing love..
--anonymous

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What's your name's hidden meaning?

You are Level-Headed and Trustworthy

You are fair, honest, and logical. You are a natural leader, and people respect you.
You never give up, and you will succeed... even if it takes you a hundred tries.
You are rational enough to see every part of a problem. You are great at giving other people advice.

You are well rounded, with a complete perspective on life.
You are solid and dependable. You are loyal, and people can count on you.
At times, you can be a bit too serious. You tend to put too much pressure on yourself.

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection.
You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.
You have the classic "Type A" personality.

You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people.
You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts.
You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.


got it from this from this webpage: http://www.blogthings.com/whatsyournameshiddenmeaningquiz/

Moving On

Sometimes moving on is another phase of our life that we really need to face.
We deal with it differently and I guess we have experienced it one way or another.

There are times that we are afraid to move on.
We are so much attached that’s why we are too scared to get out on our comfort zones
We are anxious on what will happen after
We hate to regret the decisions we are going to make
Thinking that it is so hard to start from scratch
That’s why we are clinging ourselves to hold on.

But we need to move on…

We need to explore

We need to acknowledge new possibilities

Moving on doesn’t mean forgetting the past

Moving on for me is a new beginning

A brighter future

A new set of blessings will come my way

One step wiser

A better me...

My Change.

"Sometimes the things we can’t change…

End up changes us"

--> Text message I received today 13.07.09

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In life even if we gave our best shot still we fail.
We gave all our love but still we feel heartaches.
We gave our loyalty still we are betrayed.
We are so nice to everyone still we meet rude people.
We are a happy person but still we felt sadness.
We make things lightly for us but there are hardships.

That is reality and we can’t change it.

Sometimes people dwell on the event so much that they wanted to change it.
They make a move to change things.
They are making an effort trying, trying very hard to change the situation or incident
They didn’t realize that while they are busy changing the circumstances they are changing too.

First, I wasn’t able to get what I want.
This time, someone made me feel that I am not welcomed
That I don’t belong
That I am a “useless asset”
I felt that I am not appreciated
It was so hard for me.
I wanted that “someone” to change.
I wanted “someone” to feel that I do exist and that I am not a “useless asset”
I am doing everything to change that bad feeling and that terrible situation.
But it came to my senses that I can’t really change it.
I can’t change the scenario
It only changes me

The only thing I can change is on how I deal with it.
It changes me, my perspectives and beliefs

It made me realized just this very moment that I am a changed person now. nyehehehe
I am now always thinking on positive things.
I am not anymore thinking that I am sick so that I can’t go to work
I am now more patient
I am now more productive on my work
I realized how much I am blessed having my family and my special someone in my life.
I also realized how important having a work and having a salary
I also realized that SOBRANG ANG PLASTIC KO NA.
Seriously,I come to recognize who are my true friends
And lastly I was able to meet and got to know this person that I never thought that I can consider her one of my very few good friends.

She is the one who texted this quote.

Thanks a lot. :)

Not getting what I want

Sometimes in our life we want something and we are desperate to have it thinking that it is the best for us.

We thought that having what we wanted will make us successful

Will complete us

It will make us one step ahead from the others.

Lately, I wanted this thing and I wasn’t able to get it.

I did my best.

I know it

I have done everything.

But what can I do?

I didn’t make it.

I didn’t get what I wanted.

Did I fail?

Yes I failed.

I accepted it without grudges

I guess failing will not make me unsuccessful, right?

I know this is just a beginning of a brighter future.

I am sure that better as in better days will come my way not now but soon.

I’ll just patiently wait

and accept it when it comes.

:)

Being Different

If you follow the crowd, you will likely get no further than the crowd. If you walk alone, you're likely to end up in places no one has ever been before. Being an achiever is not without its difficulties, for peculiarity breeds contempt. The unfortunate thing about being ahead of your time is that when people finally realize you were right, they'll simply say it was obvious to everyone all along. You have two choices in life. You can dissolve into the main stream, or you can choose to become an achiever and be distinct. To be distinct, you must be different. To be different, you must strive to be what no else but you can be.— Unknown wise person
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I choose to become an achiever... yeah!!!